I saw this really good article by Sarah Frantz today and I just had to share it. I agree with a lot of what she has to say about how not to write BDSM stories. I don’t think I’m guilty of any of these kinds of heinously bad mistakes, but it’s important to have reminders like this sometimes!
http://dearauthor.com/book-reviews/four-ways-not-to-write-bdsm-romance/